Here is my upcoming schedule for the rest of this year.

Looking forward to meeting all of you!

Please check to see if you can make it to any of these:

Note: Workshops are FREE presentations from myself in the designated city.

CLICK HERE for booking info

I am attacking this like Lonadis. Spartans. Be ready.

nT

PS. If anyone is a nightclub promoter and wants me to DJ in any of these locations at these times please email tim@realsocialdynamics.com

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Hello how are you today!?

I am inspired. Each and every time I log on to RSDnation or my video blog I realize that we are surrounded by some really talented and smart people who are good at picking up women.

The wealth of knowledge that we all bring to the table is moving the world forward in a great way. Girls are happy and so are we! Today I want to talk about something a little more advanced: Talking Congruently.

Have you ever been talking to a girl and been thinking “wtf!? this girl is being a bitch for the sake of it” or “what the hell is this girl talking about” or “damn this girl is being so cold for NO REASON”…

Now let me ask you: how many times have you actually called the girl out on it? Let me illustrate answering a question over at RSDnation

Quote:

Originally Posted by RichBristol Hey mate,I’d love to know more about how you turn around uber-bitchy responses - like, the eastern-european ice-queen, the L.A. turbo who dismisses every guy instantly, etc…what sort of things will you do and what vibe do you have to plow through and turn it round?Thanks man!

Rich! when this happens to me… something inside me says “wtf! I am being cool and she is being a shithead”…

It’s that ’something inside me’ that is the answer. You see, if you are communicating absolutely congruently and from the CORE YOU, then you would have no problems saying to a girl “What the hell is your problem? geeeez! lighten up girly”

I have told girls to shut the fuck up before, when to the CORE felt they needed it.The feminine is always going to test the masculine CORE. So I just see it as an opportunity to get on top of that FAST.

You are an advanced guy… a money guy for that matter - start communicating what you REALLY FEEL. Like if she is acting total chode TELL HER. She needs to know that you will call her on her ice queen bullshit.

NOTE: RichBristol is an ADVANCED DUDE who has his SHIT DIALED. I dont want all you n00bs running around telling girls they are a bitch, when you are approaching like a creepy chode yourself…. its up to you to make the call.

good luck man

I am interested in your guys thoughts on this: hit me up with a comment.

Have a WICKED INSPIRED DAY

your nT

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I’m up late. Very late.

Have you ever had a song spinning in your head that you just can’t shake?

I was lying in bed thinking of this old school house tune I used to play when learning to DJ…

So the insomnia caused me to make a remix and also share it with you.

Lets call it “Music to make love to your old lady by (at night)”

timothy marc - the revolution will not be televised

click the headphones to download for free

1. Play.

2. Call the girl over that you have been thinking about.

3. Play again.

nT

P.S I know alex is into this chillout late night stuff right now. Might have inspired his latest cool article: check it at www.alexattitude.com

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Hey there,

Have you ever noticed that whenever you have a personal epiphany, it never happens when you are just sitting around watching TV or hanging
at your house. It happens when you are MOVING, WALKING or in the shower or doing something else. Definitely NOT when you sit around waiting for a good idea.

I had an epiphany the other day while on my way to grab a coffee that I thought would be a wicked perspective for you on Natural Game.

Attraction between a man and a woman occurs when there are clear POLAR OPPOSITES.

The two separate poles are MASCULINE and FEMININE.

Now as a dude, to the core, most of us have a masculine tendancy.
However you can also have a bias towards feminine and that’s ok too.

For the purposes of this article I will discuss you as being a MASCULINE male.

What comes into your mind when you think of the word MASCULINE?

Dominant.
Leading.
Aggresive.
Goes after what he wants.
Manly.
Potent.
Logical.
Powerful.
Robust.
Strong.
Vigorous.
Brave.

Ok, so what comes into your mind when you thing of the word FEMININE?

Womanly.
Soft.
Girlish.
Emotional.
Nurturing.
…

You get the picture.

Now, on a deeper level. A man MUST follow his core PURPOSE.
That is whatever he chooses to be his LIFE CRAFT.

You could be a Lawyer, Dentist, Businessman, Musician, whatever.

My life craft for the last six years has been learning and coaching being successful with woman. My other craft is also a house music DJ.

What is YOUR life craft?

Have YOU looked deep inside and DECIDED that this is my craft?
If not, you may be killing yourself.

The key is YOU decide it - nobody external can decide it for you.
Your parents, friends and family may want a craft for you but ultimately for you to be fulfilled as a man - YOU must choose your craft.

Let me ask you another question:

Are you following your craft with absolute passion and energy?

Look again at some of the words that describe the masculine:

Powerful.
Robust.
Strong.
Vigorous.
Brave…

Do you feel these types of things on a regular basis with your craft?

Now for the important part: How this relates to attracting women.

Look at this diagram:

This attraction circle represents a deeper core level of attraction that a woman will feel for a MAN. A man truley aligned with his craft.

Here is the order:

1. It starts with YOU the MAN focusing SOLEY on your CRAFT.
2. This craft may or may not be VISIBLE to the WOMAN.
(I’ll explain the importance of visibility in a second)
3. The woman focuses on the MAN and can see him firmly rooted in his CRAFT

The key: VISABILITY.

A woman must see you firmly rooted in your craft (yourself).

Does this mean she has to see you at your desk job plugging away?

NO!

There are 2 types of visibility: 1. Physical 2. Implicit.

1. Physical Visability. She actually SEES you at your craft.
Where hopefully you are displaying those MASCULINE properties outlined above.

Examples:

You are speaking at a conference on business.
You are a DJ and are owning the room.
You are a bringing in sales.
You are playing basketball or some sport and doing well.
You are a rockstar.

Notice the socially most attractive crafts have the highest PHYSICAL VISABILITY?

E.g. You are a rockstar. Up there performing your craft in front of thousands.
Pretty damn attractive.

Hold up. I don’t want you all to run out and start learning the guitar just yet.

2. Implicit Visability

Now this one is very potent on a micro level.

When you walk up to a woman, and approach with a certain intensity and tonality, you can INSTANTLY communicate the same vibe as a guy with high visability.

You can actually go up to a girl and say “Hey, I’m Joe” and immediately communicate that you are one of THOSE GUYS.

For example, say Tom Cruise (whatever you think of him) was on an island where nobody knew who he was. Would he walk up to a girl and be all nervous because they don’t know who he is?

No. He would walk over as he would to anyone - assuming they know who he is!

Think about the certain tone of voice, the ease of bodylanguage and communication of all of those masculine traits.

The two things I want you to get out of today’s article are these:

1. Are you living to your craft?

What happens when you take your eyes off your craft and let a woman become your core focus? disaster. I remember when I made a girlfriend my sole purpose and focus back in the day - the result: she cheated on me with a loser.

Pick your craft. Be disciplined. Own it like a man should.

2. How perceptively VISIBLE are you?

When you walk up and talk to a girl does she get the FEELING that you are a sought after/visible guy who can handle himself and his craft?

Hope this stirs some thinking

Post up a comment and let me know what YOU think

Cheers

nT

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An important thankyou:

To all the amazing characters on my blogs, RSDnation and beyond.

To all the students I have ever helped achieve the success and women they ever wanted.

To all the champs that are out there in field getting girls (whether they have seen my stuff or not).

To all the RSD staff who make magic happen.

I just clicked on a comment I recieved recently that I want to share - this is what the Flawless Natural launch tomorrow is all about:

YOU

Jon Says:

July 1st, 2008 at 9:17pm                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          

“Tim, Great teleseminar today man.

I was thinking about it today and I have studied every article etc on game from “the book” to todays flawless natural seminar.

It wasn’t until RSD that I thought, “Yes! This is it! This is what it’s supposed to be.”I have devoured all RSD material since then and the results have been tremendous. Then suddenly, months later,boom here comes Tim on a mission.

All the nebulous concepts that have been sort of ambiguous in my mind became concrete with the blog and videoblog. Your language and breakdown speak to my learning style and its on.

I recently had success this past weekend and I used Tim style no game. I just was the game. You’re doing a huge thing for us out here who have been studying this for awhile and needed a click. So thanks for that click Tim. Keep going strong and helping us to walk towards the best selves we can be.”

Cheers to all of our success in the future!

The past five years have been worth it

Enjoy the launch (and the preceeding women generated from it)

your T

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Hey there,

Some non serious fun today.

To celebrate the launch of the Flawless Natural Method on DVD, Jeffy and I went into the studio to create a few classic episodes detailing WOOO! (a guy who is inside his head vs a guy who is outside his head).

Episode 1

Episode 2

Episode 3

Episode 4

nT

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Hey there,

Today is a really exciting day for you and me!

After all the questions such as: “Tim, what is your full entire method?”, “Are you putting this out on DVD/CD?”, “Where can I learn EVERYTHING all in one package?”

Well this past six months has been a massive preparation for the bomb thats dropping on July 2:

Click over to flawlessnatural.com to see what its all about before you read on…

It consists of THREE never-seen-before components to take you light years ahead in your results:

1) The Flawless Attitude

2) The Flawless 5 Step Method

3) The Flawless Ecosystem.

As you would expect I have kept it very light on theory, and focused on teaching you his secret framework that will blow up your immediate response from women literally the same night you put it to the test.

It will teach you the secrets of my DIRECT and NATURAL approach, from start to finish, by tapping into your “Core Masculine Intent”
so that you are lethally effective and hyper potent in all your interactions with all the honeys out there.

YOU HAVE NEVER SEEN ANYTHING LIKE THIS BEFORE.

http://www.flawlessnatural.com

This is 100% FRESH, NEW CONTENT with ZERO REHASH of anything you’ve ever experienced - a total quantum leap in both your abilities “in the field” and your success with the exact type of women you want.

I have also included a heap of LIVE IN FIELD FOOTAGE (a first for RSD) as a teaching aid to make this the most successful program you’ve ever done.

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

nT

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Something to think about for today:

Be VERY careful of your assumptions.

Back in the day when I was learning how to approach girls, I would read lot about the girl having HIGHER VALUE than the guy.

I actually believed this for a long time.

When you enter the bar or club or wherever, do you immediately assume the girls are better, cooler, have more status and are overall HIGHER
than yourself?

You silly, silly man.

These are GIRLS. Our other halves. Wonderful things that are there for US.

As soon as you assume higher value, you will PROJECT lower value through all your sub communications and boom - you ARE lower value.

There is a lot of pickup material swirling around that is based upon this premise - GIRLS ARE HIGHER VALUE.

The material says you should use tactics to either

a. lower her value
b. heighten your value

When you are looking at getting a girl from this perspective: the whole focus of attraction becomes a big chess game of who has the most value, instead of being an awesome adventure that you passionately enjoy (and, in turn, she does too).

Lets change our focus here.

One of the components of the Flawless Natural method is the FLAWLESS ATTITUDE.

One of the key attidues that can really help you is starting to view women as EQUAL VALUE. She has cool stuff, you have cool stuff - let’s blend the two.

Another key attitude is to view everything in your life as cool.
For example, I know guys who have great looks, lots of money and everything going for them but they aren’t EXCITED about it. They think their life is dull and are constantly chasing the next big thing.

This produces NO GIRLS in their lives so they always thinking they are lacking.

I also know dudes who have beat up cars, struggle to pay the rent and are shaggy fellows. They MAKE the things around them cool.

My old beat up car I used to call the ‘Chariot of love’. So when I would talk to girls I would refer to the ‘Chariot’. The chariot was, actually, rubbish - but somehow by me naming it that and viewing it as a cool thing, it became cool.

Over at my new videoblog, I talk about viewing people in the club not as obstacles but as CHEERLEADERS to your success.

When you view the world through the flawless natural lens, attracting girls becomes inevitable.

Much love

nT

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Hello to you,

Just got back from Santa Barbara, what a rad little town they have going there.
Bummed I didn’t get to see the nightlife but ahhh well.

I want to discuss something very important to me right now. Ripping the lid off your core man inside.

A lot of people watch programs about being a natural that are like 6 hours long with all sorts of
attitude adjustments and subtleties, but what they remember is ‘Approach by being yourself, without canned lines’.

They try it and it doesn’t work right away, and then they get confused.
This is because they’re understanding natural game IN REACTION to canned game,
and looking at WHAT NATURAL GAME IS NOT rather than looking at WHAT IT IS.
To make being a natural work, it’s not just about approaching with small talk, but with the lid off your core.

Say you get a Flawless Natural opener, like “Hey there, I’m Barry”.

You get all pumped up (WOOO!), run over to the girl and deliver.
She blows it off initially - so you go to the next girl, and the next, and the next.

Whoa all these blowouts. I guess Natural Game does not work.

Listen up.

Lets drill down to the core:

When you see a honey, what is the VERY first thing that comes to your mind?

- Ohhhhhh yum
- She looks AWESOME
- I would love to…
- YESSSS!
- Damn she is FINE

Or something like that. There is a split MILLISECOND when you lay your eyes on a girl
that your TRUE MANLY CORE talks to you. He gives you the right direction.

Now what happens after that first millisecond (most of the time)?
The mind of doom kicks in:

- Your not good enough
- What line should you use?
- Is your hair done good tonight?
…

List goes on…

But that first MILLISECOND where your core opens up (the DAMN SHE IS HOT) is where the power lies. The core tells you to ENJOY a girl. To go up FREE from petty restraints such as exactly what to say.

Sometimes I will blurt out things on my mind that have NOTHING to do with what we are talking about… that’s the lid off the core.

Opening girls with dumb stuff or general things that are going on in your world RIGHT NOW… that’s the lid of the core.

When the girl isnt acting favourable and you DONT CARE and just KEEP GOING because your are there not for her but as a CELEBRATION OF YOU… that’s the lid off the core.

With the lid off your core, you ride an awesome WAVE of you.

When you talk and act purely for your own enjoyment (but also to invite other people into your awesome world) you are coming from your core.

So when you go up and try this flawless natural style… go and FULLY put yourself out there. Instead of worrying about a girl opening up… OPEN YOURSELF UP.

The examples and material that you see on my blog are simply Tim with the lid off his core.

Take the lid off the core and let yourself ENJOY.

nT

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Hello you!

Today is a really special day for us.

I’ve really been enjoying the activity here on the blog. The stuff im continually trying to put out is like ‘pickup brain food’.

How good is it when you read stuff and it immediately gets you to take action and get pure results? Well here is some more powerful pickup brain food:

Flawless Natural Video Blog

Between my articles and updates here and the video over there - WOW.

Totally psyched.

nT

PS. Please let me know what you think of my new site at http://www.flawlessnaturalvideoblog.com

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